Today, a family member is taken to her final rest after a tragic drowning accident. This is for her.
Do not stand at my grave and weep I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry; I am not there, I did not die.
I woke up to the first snow of the season. And the only positive thing about that is that if it's going to snow some more all the leaves on the ground won't show and we won't have to do anything about it.
I received the most beautiful crib for my birthday. Our neighbours have a second hand market every Saturday and Sunday. I have bought several items from there, but when I saw this crib I simply fell in love. So a couple of days ago my Man surprised me with it. I am SO happy! It's from 1821, isn't it just amazing?
The cats thought it would be a nice idea to pose, by the way.
The chair I also bought from there and I plan to paint it white and change the fabric to a blue-grey with a little bit of grey-silver mixed in it.
The blue-white vase I also got for my birthday and I just love it. Blue and white is my middle name. The flower I'm a bit unsure of, is it Amaryllis?
The other images is from earlier in the summer, they are taken just outside the house.
I read an article the other day about mindfulness. It's of course one of the latest trends and I rarely follow them. Two of the tips caught my attention, though.
1. Perspective. Live in the moment, focus less on what has been. It might lead to less stress and worry.
Tip: Wright down three things you are grateful about, every day. It helps you to change perspective and affects your being. Research show that after three weeks of doing this you feel better, you simply get used to feeling happiness.
2. Acceptance. Focus on accepting what is, be it good or bad. When accepting you can decide on whether to act on it or not. Acceptance results in you making more 'sober' choices, not only acting on instinct.
Tip: Watch people around you without judging or categorise. Simply watch them.
My three positive things today.
1. I am grateful for getting seven hours sleep last night. Usually it's limited to four.
2. I am grateful for the cats coming to wish me good morning every day. They love unconditionally and I do the same.
3. I am grateful for the wonderful view outside, lots of green nature and still water.
